Be In the Know!

As you know, nursing assistants provide up to 90% of hands-on care for our sick and elderly.  Yet, even after all of their hard work, many CNAs feel unappreciated.  Throughout the U.S., we are losing many dedicated nursing assistants who can’t handle putting their “all” into a job for which they do not feel respected.  (It’s not unlike the way it was for nurses in the past, right?)

Has your organization been affected by the CNA shortage? Unfortunately, the problem is only going to get worse.  In the United States alone, there are more than 3 million direct care workers, but we will need one million more by 2016!  And, over the next ten years, it is estimated that we’ll need 30% more home health aides.  This rate of growth is much faster than the average for all occupations.

Our mission at In the Know has always been to enhance the professionalism of nursing assistants everywhere. So, to do just that, we have created a website where the general public can gain a better understanding of the important work done by CNAs.  And, at Just for Nursing Assistants, people are free to let nursing assistants know they care by offering words of support, a personal experience or simply expressions of gratitude.

Some of you have already submitted your thoughts to us.  If so, your comments will be published on Just for Nursing Assistants in the coming weeks.  If you have not expressed your feelings, please consider doing so now…and help us spread the word about the dedication and compassion of CNAs.  And, feel free to share the website address (www.justfornursingassistants.com) with all your direct care staff.

Take care,

Linda

Linda Leekley BS, RN

It’s part of life. As we age, we are forced to deal with a greater number of serious emotional losses.  Most elderly people must face a variety of different losses.  Do your CNAs know how to help their elderly clients deal with those losses?  At your next CNA inservice meeting, consider using the following scenario as a way to open a discussion about loss among the elderly.

Emotional Losses of the Elderly

“In youth, we run into difficulties.  In old age, difficulties run into us.”

~Josh Billings

There’s no way around it. Losses are painful and often sad. They represent an end to something—and this ending creates an emotional wound. This is especially true for the elderly who must endure a number of different emotional losses. For example:

• At age 65, Sarah Smith retires from her job. Even though this gives her more free time, she misses the daily contact with her former coworkers. A year later, Sarah’s husband dies. His sudden death leaves her devastated…and in some financial trouble.

• During that same time, Sarah is diagnosed with both diabetes and hypertension. She also develops chronic back pain.

• On her 67th birthday, Sarah receives word that her sister has passed away. Three months later, Sarah’s best friend dies from cancer.

• Six months later, her son decides that she should no longer live alone. He helps Sarah sell her house and moves her into an assisted living facility.

• To the staff at the facility, Sarah seems like a grumpy, forgetful woman who keeps to herself and seems impossible to please. No one is very fond of her. But look at things from Sarah’s point of view. Within two short years, she has lost her work, her friends, her health, her husband and her home. Is it any wonder that she tends to be grumpy and withdrawn?

Just like physical injuries need time to heal…so do emotional wounds. People who spend time grieving are doing what they need to heal their emotional wounds. The only “cure” for grief is to go through the grieving process. People must do this in their own way and at their own pace.

Grieving is hard work and can leave people physically and emotionally exhausted. In the end, the process of grieving encourages people to take charge of their own lives and to move forward.

Would Your Nursing Assistants Like to Know More?

If you’d like to give your CNAs more information about emotional losses, consider presenting an inservice that includes information on:

• The three stages of grief.
• The physical and emotional symptoms of grief.
• The loss of youth.
• The loss of family and friends.
• The loss of work.
• The loss of a spouse.
• The loss of health.
• The loss of independence.
• What your CNAs can do to help clients through these losses.

Don’t have time to put together your own inservice?  Then, please check out our inservice called Emotional Losses in the Elderly.  It covers all of the above information…and more.

Happy Teaching!

How do your nursing assistants handle workplace conflict? Do they ignore it and pretend it isn’t happening? Do they give in just to make it go away? Or, do they compromise respectfully with each other? At your next CNA inservice meeting, consider using this case study as a way to open a discussion about conflict management at your organization.

You Can’t Avoid Conflict

It’s true: whenever people spend day after day together, conflict cannot be avoided completely. You may be nodding in agreement or you may be thinking that you’ve never had a dispute with anyone. However, conflict at work happens to everyone at some point in his or her career.

A dispute between people usually begins with a disagreement. When you and a co-worker disagree, you have one opinion and your co-worker has another. Often, it doesn’t really matter to either of you what the other person thinks. You both go on with your lives, each sticking to your own opinion. Usually, disagreements consist of only words and they do not affect how people interact with each other.

For example, Tim and Connie, both CNAs, disagree one day at work about the proper way to give a bath to a bedridden client. They each express their opinion, saying that’s how they were taught in school. They end the discussion by saying, “OK…you do it your way and I’ll do it mine.” Tim and Connie disagree, but they respect each other’s opinion and have no trouble working together.

A full-blown conflict can begin with different opinions, but it grows into something much larger. Generally, it is not what people say, but how they act, that causes a disagreement to escalate into a conflict. In almost all conflicts, the problem is not the initial disagreement, but the way in which it is handled.

Let’s take another look at Tim and Connie’s situation. Imagine that instead of agreeing to disagree about bathing a client, they get into an ongoing struggle about who is right.

Tim starts telling other co-workers that Connie doesn’t know how to give a proper bath. Connie gives Tim hateful looks and refuses to work with him. They have entered into a contest of opposing forces. Having gone past the point of disagreement, Tim and Connie are in a full-blown conflict, which can start causing a disruption among their co-workers and eventually in job performance. Both Tim and Connie are creating a situation where neither will back down; each thinks that they would appear to be wrong by offering a truce. Unless their conflict is resolved, work will remain an unpleasant place for both of them!

Tim and Connie must put an end to their conflict, as it is hurting them both… and is also causing a disruption to the rest of the workplace. Let’s see them fix the problem by going through five simple steps:

1. Connie realizes that they need to stop this fight and asks Tim politely if she can speak to him. Tim agrees and they sit in an empty meeting room together–away from their coworkers.
2. They take turns telling one another their points of view. One speaks while the other actively listens.
3. They see that the problem is they each have a strong personality, are competitive and like to be right. They agree that the problem was never the actual bathing technique—but how they communicated.
4. They discuss the bathing method they each use and decide that both techniques are acceptable. However, Tim and Connie say they will continue using their own method. Neither person wins or loses.
5. Tim and Connie decide that, in the future, they will keep their own techniques to themselves. As long as the job is getting done, they can agree to disagree on the proper method. If either Tim or Connie uses a method that is not getting the job done, they will discuss it politely at that time. In the meantime, they agree that the conflict is over, and they both decide to apologize to their co-workers.

Would Your Nursing Assistants Like to Know More?

If you’d like to give your CNAs more information about workplace conflict, consider presenting an inservice on conflict resolution that includes:

• The common ways that people approach conflict.
• A step-by-step process for resolving workplace conflict.
• How gossip and workplace bullying promote conflict.
• How to respond to an unprofessional coworker.
• How to handle conflict with a supervisor or a client.

Don’t have time to put together your own inservice?  Then, please check out our inservice called Conflict in the Workplace.  It covers all of the above information…and more.

Happy Teaching!

There’s a book I’d like to recommend to nursing supervisors and educators everywhere.  It has nothing to do with health care or nursing specifically, but has everything to do with helping us inspire those around us.  The book, Start with Why, emphasizes the importance of uncovering what makes you “tick”.  Its author, Simon Sinek, encourages readers to reach past the “what” and “how” of their jobs and dig deeply for their “why”—the purpose, cause or belief that gets them out of bed every morning.

For example, here’s how I examined myself after reading the book:

WHAT I do:  I run a company that sells continuing education for nursing assistants.

HOW I do it:  Along with a team of writers, I create CNA inservices and sell them to health care organizations around the globe.

WHY I do what I do:  Here’s where it got challenging.  The process of mining my personality for my “why” took some time.  Basically, here’s how it evolved…

• I create inservices for nursing assistants because I’m a nurse. Well, yes, being a nurse is a requisite, but I could have taken my nursing career in many different directions.  So that’s not the answer.

• I create CNA inservices because I like to teach. Sure, that’s true.  But that’s not exactly what makes me eager to come to the office every day.  I had to start thinking beyond the obvious and look for my purpose, my true beliefs.

• So, I began looking around me, examining the company that I had created.  Then it struck me.  I had named my company In the Know.  The website address I established is made up of the words knowing and more.  My employees are all encouraged to continue learning…and even have library time during their workday when they can read up on any subject of interest to them.  Together, we create learning materials.  Everything pointed toward the same thing: knowledge.

• I believe that knowledge is power. Hmm…I felt like I was getting close!  But thinking of knowledge as power paints a static picture.  My “why” felt more dynamic than that.

• I believe that lifelong learning is essential to both personal and professional success. Ah ha!  That’s more like it!  Learning is an ongoing, fluid process.  Learning brings people together—and when two people share what they know, they both come away with more than they had before.  That’s my personal and professional “why” and is what inspires all of us at In the Know to do our very best!

As a nursing supervisor or educator, are you tapping into your “why” when it comes to inservicing your nursing assistants?  For example:

WHAT you do:  Present inservices to your CNAs.

HOW you do it:  By passing out and discussing handouts at monthly one hour meetings.

WHY you do it:  Because it’s required? That’s just the surface.  To share your knowledge with your nursing assistants? Maybe, but author Simon Sinek would have you dig deeper.  To join together with your aides to learn something new? That’s better.  Because you believe that the more your CNAs know, the more they can achieve? Maybe…but only you can figure out your “why” and use it to inspire not only yourself but everyone around you.

If you don’t have time to read Simon’s book, at least take a quick peek at his blog.  You’re sure to find inspiration in his words.  And, have fun pondering your own personal and professional “why”!